We all experience anxiety in social situations, whether it’s the flutter of nerves you feel before giving a presentation or your heart rate increasing when meeting someone new. “Nervousness and …
Overcoming Resentment in Relationships
It’s normal to feel resentment, which involves feelings of anger or bitterness, over a slight injustice or a major incident. Continuing to hold onto these feelings, however, can have negative …
Yes, You Can Heal Your Mother Wound
For most of us, the mother is the first person we meet in the world. The mother feeds, clothes, and bathes us. The mother cares for us, guides us, protects …
What Is Revenge Bedtime Procrastination?
Revenge bedtime procrastination refers to a phenomenon in which people put off going to bed to engage in activities that they don’t have time for during the day. It is …
How Often Do Couples Express Compassion to Each Other?
Imagine you’re coming home from work at the end of a long day. You feel tired and distracted, and you might be looking forward to an evening of relaxing on …
Introversion vs. Social Anxiety: What’s the Difference?
While some qualities overlap, these are two very different things The terms “introversion” and “social anxiety” get thrown around a lot these days, and you might think they’re interchangeable—they both …
Emotional Contagion: Can Emotions Really Be Infectious?
Why we mimic people’s emotions and how to regulate it You’ve likely heard the expression, “smiling is contagious,” and instantly smiled back when someone flashed a grin at you. Or …
What It Means to Feel ‘Angsty’ and How to Cope
The term ‘angst’ denotes anxiety and emotional turmoil. Someone who is feeling angsty may feel, display, or express worry, dread, apprehension, restlessness, or insecurity, says Heather Hagen, LMFT, Executive Director …
The Painful Effects of Attachment Trauma
Bonding to a parent or caregiver is a critical part of a baby’s emotional development. In fact, the absence of love and of a strong attachment to a parent can …
Five Reasons Emotions Are Important
Emotions can play an important role in how you think and behave. The emotions you feel each day can compel you to take action and influence the decisions you make …
Allowing Ourselves to Feel Joy During the Day
I’ve come to the realization that most of us don’t allow ourselves to feel joy most days. Sure, maybe on some kind of big occasion, we’ll let ourselves run around …
How to Actually Follow Through on the Relationship Advice You Get
You could read a dozen articles to improve your love life, but if you don’t use any of it, why bother? Here’s how to put that good advice to use. …
How I Survived Wedding Season in My First Year of Sobriety
There’s more to weddings than an open bar. It just took giving up alcohol for me to realize it. Weddings are for partying. I learned this much at my first …
How People Want to Feel Determines If Others Can Influence Their Emotions
New Stanford research on emotions shows that people’s motivations are a driving factor behind how much they allow others to influence their feelings, such as anger. In a new study, …
What Happens to Your Body When You’re Thinking?
What happens to your body when you’re thinking? You might think that is a simple question to answer: a thought is just words in your brain that cause you to …
Sleep Training My Child Almost Put My Marriage to Bed
The baby was screaming. We were screaming. Something had to change. It was 3:24 a.m. when my wife finally lost her cool as the indignant screams of our 1-year-old son …
Sharing Passwords Is Romantic, But Not Without Risk
Some couples see sharing online passwords as a symbol of love and trust. But technology experts say there are both personal and legal risks to password sharing. In a new …
Moving Past the Betrayal: How to Rebuild Trust in Your Relationship
Trust in an intimate relationship is rooted in feeling safe with another person. Infidelity, lies, or broken promises can severely damage the trust between a husband and wife. That, however, …
Making the Decision to End Your Marriage
How to know when divorce is the right move If you’re thinking about ending your marriage, you’re likely facing one of the most difficult decisions of your adult life. Many …
8 Tips for Coping When Your Partner Is Unfaithful
Finding out that your partner has been unfaithful can hit you like a ton of bricks. Your marriage may be thrown into a state of crisis that may destroy it. …
The Benefits of Couples Therapy While Separated
Love is a top priority when thinking about entering into a long-term committed relationship. In fact, 88 percent of Americans report that love is the most important reason to consider …
How to Deal with Feeling Bad About Your Feelings
New research explores how “meta-emotions” work, such as feeling sad about feeling anxious. For a moment he felt good about this. A moment or two later he felt bad about …
A Case For Spending Time In The Counselor’s Office
John Jay Osborn is a screenwriter and novelist who often mines his own life for material. In 1970, he based the book The Paper Chase on his time in law …
Can Gratitude Help Couples Through Hard Times?
New research suggests that thanking our partners for supporting us through hardship may increase their joy and satisfaction in giving. When my best friend went through multiple surgeries and dislocations …
Can You Affect Another Person’s Behavior With Your Thoughts?
Do you think that the private thoughts in your head could influence how other people — or creatures — act? The answer is “Of course not,” right? Because to say …
How Seeing Good in People Can Help Bridge Differences
When we witness acts of goodness, we’re more likely to see our common humanity. Americans seem awfully divided these days. Everywhere I look, I see signs of antagonism and conflict …
Does your job suck? It Might Be Missing Two Ingredients
Let’s be honest: For many people, work sucks. But for others, work is an adventure. The difference doesn’t always lie in the nature of the work. Two different people can …
Sense of Smell & Sexual Attraction
Scent plays an often under-appreciated role in sexual attraction, helping to account for why visual attractiveness alone can’t explain just how physically attractive a person is perceived to be. But …
Study Finds Women Over Estimate & Men Underestimate Advances
Imagine that, during a quiet evening at home watching a movie with your romantic partner, you feel intense sexual desire and sensually put a hand on your partner’s thigh. Your …
How to Know if You’ve Married the Wrong Person
Christine Carter has clearly married the wrong man—again. Or did she? When my first marriage failed, I wanted desperately to fall in love and start again. I wanted to show …
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